October Moms Gathering

8:25 PM
It's very common for moms whose EDDs are in the same month to gather together so they can compare milestones and their babies can join play dates with other babies their age. There're about 300 moms in the main group, so a lot of moms usually congregate in smaller cliques.

Today, the main group organised a gathering so we brought Elise there. Luckily, her friends were all there so we didn't feel too lonely. There was a buffet spread, popcorn, candy floss and ice cream booth as well as a photobooth. 
Elise and Noah had a long conversation where they baby talked, stared at each other and laughed. It was really cute!


Matty: "No Elise, that's not how you do a fistbump!"
They decided to just grab hands in the end.
One of the programmes was a Music and Movement class for parents and babies. The instructor told us to maintain eye contact with our child, but Elise kept turning her head to look at Matty and didn't even look at me! We had zero eye contact. 

It's actually more tiring for the parents than the babies, because we have to lift them up and down, walk under "bridges" and play with parachutes. I'm not sure if the babies even understood what was going on.  
Babies in a row. This is like 1/3 of the babies present. There was a baby near us who slept right through the session! Hehehe.
Matty: "Guys, guys, chill. I've got this."

Elise: "This rabbit looks tasty."

Noah: "Matty, what's that on your head?"


The things that parents do for their children. Afterwards, there was a mass photo shoot involving 50+ babies. It was chaotic and resembled a baby market. There were babies who screamed, babies who screamed after hearing other babies scream, babies who looked frightened, and babies who just looked around. Elise and her friends were the calmer ones. So proud of them. 

The 50+ babies present for the event. It really looks like the babies are for sale or something. 

Our babies, just chillaxing.
The lucky draw prizes were attractive as well! The more attractive prizes were the Parklon Playmat, Tula carrier and Avent Steamer Blender. 

Yvette was aiming for the high chair or Tula, but when the host asked if anyone wanted (to win) the nursing cover, Matty babbled "me, me" and Yvette's name actually got called! It was so hilarious. I won a nursing cover as well. I don't exactly need it, but it's really soft to touch, so I've put it in the wash and I'll try it out. 

Elise had her milk and zonked out. It was fun, well organised, and the babies had a great time!



 Goodie bag included lots of diaper samples, some skincare samples,lactation cookies from Melody Bakes and a baby book. 














girls' day out

Girls' Day Out

10:43 PM
I brought Elise out alone for the first time to meet my other mummy friends a few weeks ago. My husband was VERY concerned and asked if I needed him to accompany me but I knew I'd be okay, so I declined. I had to reject him more than once because he was so worried.

I packed the bare essentials (less bare than the other time at the dentist, for sure) into a tote bag:

  • Phone, spare battery, wallet, keys, tissue - these were all I used to pack before I had Elise)
  • Disposable diapers (Merries!) x 4 pcs
  • Baby clothes, booties, mittens x 2 sets
  • Nursing cover
  • Wet bag with wet wipes, plastic bags and ziplock bags
  • Changing mat
and began my journey to the west town. It's troublesome carrying a bulky tote (yes, it is bulky even without bottles and formula) and juggling a baby. I've been very lucky so far to have been offered seats in trains throughout my pregnancy and whenever I am out with Elise. 

I fed her before leaving the house, so she slept through. At the restaurant, I put a changing mat on the sofa before laying her down on it where she continued sleeping so I could eat. 
The other mummies ate whilst baby-wearing their bubs. 

I've tried it once before in the food court where I had nowhere to put her down. It is definitely doable, but it's really uncomfortable when there's something in between you and your food. 

She cried for milk in between, so I latched her under the cape. Benefits of breastfeeding aside, it's just so. much. more. convenient to breastfeed because there's no need to find hot water, make sure the temperature is correct and no bottles to clean. The downside is that your boobs become really droopy... ANYWAYS.
Snug like a bug

The bug has awakened

Some food got onto her clothes so I brought her to the nursing room to change. 
We walked around the mall after shopping with our bubs all sleeping. At her next diaper change, she decided to pee right after I removed her diaper, so she had yet another change of clothes. I've learnt my lesson. 

It's enjoyable bringing baby out alone, but for now, I'd still prefer to have my husband around to carry the load so I can just concentrate on carrying her. 


Goofy bug

Shocked bug